What do you do when you're feeling insecure about yourself?

I go through phases (judging from what others have told me, this is not uncommon) where I feel like I look great one day and disgusting the next.



If I'm feeling fat I FUEL it by googling pictures of models, "hot" women, flat stomachs, etc. It's like I want to negatively influence myself to work harder. But sometimes it backfires and I go eat a slice of pizza.



What's a normal healthy way to deal with this that is not a) obsessive b) upsetting and c) stressful?What do you do when you're feeling insecure about yourself?
Awe. honey, i am so sorry that you are feeling this way! every one goes through your these "crappy" feeling days. believe it or not, the "hot" women your looking at feel the same way and go through the same thing too. there are some days that i feel like just staying in my bed because i feel ugly and sometimes fat too.i too feel this way. like i said, everyone goes through it. from ages 6-80 ect. the ages are starting to get younger and older. you shouldnt let society get to you. not everyone looks like barbie. infact, not one in the world has the perfect figure, no matter what anyone says. for that matter, who even knows what the "perfect figure" is? however, i do think that looking at how you wish or want to look could be just hurting yourself. your not obsessed with women, or weight or anything. your just A woman. its ok. you eating pizza is your comfort zone. your mind is twisting your thoughts around because of those images your looking at. your saying to yourself, "i will never look like that, so why try?" dont say that. your hurting yourself. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. say it to yourself everyday. make signs and hang them around your house. i know i sound crazy, but if you hang these words around your house, those dayily reminders will eventually stay in your head, then when you have these bad thoughts of negativity, you will think to your self, "I AM BEAUTIFUL.!!" no, you wont sound self conceded, you will just be confident! and if your looking for a man, the key is confidence! so take it all in. write positive notes all around your house. the change can start today. so say it now, outloud., I AM BEAUTIFUL! you are, so dont let ANYTHING get to you.!



good luck darling! and remember, YOU ARE AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL!



lots of love,

Civannah Marie
haha thanks! i am a crazy person who gets a little excied sometimes, but i am glad to help your confidence level go up, and to get some giggles!



glad to help!

Civannah Marie

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What do you do when you're feeling insecure about yourself?
wow you sound just like me!



Believe in yourself, and look at yourself in the mirror. Think how you could change, and the good things that this could bring :) then your positivly motivating yourself



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maybe you suffer low self esteem , see a therapist to talk it through, goodluck to you.
First of all, everybody feels insecure at one time or another. You need to look at yourself and see the positive things. Don't focus on the negatives. Everybody has flaws they're not happy with.
what do i do? drink more beer. :)



here get this through your head first...your NOT fat. quit looking at the models cause they are fake. relax and continue to take care of yourself. you have to cheat on your diet every now and again to stay sain.